It’s the first Wednesday of the month, which means it’s time to talk about insecurities. Before I do that, I’d like to thank Alex Cavanaugh for hosting this wonderful meme. If you'd like to learn more about it, just click on his name.
Happy New Year! I hope
you had an amazing holiday season!
The great thing about a
new year is that we get a chance to start fresh, set new goals, and reflect on
our accomplishments. 2012 was a good year for me, and I’m hoping 2013 is even
better. This would probably be a perfect time to make the New Year’s resolution
that in 2013 I’m not going to be insecure. Sounds great, doesn't it? But I know
that isn't a realistic goal. After all, no one sets out to be insecure. It just
sort of happens.
So in 2013 I vow to use
my insecurities to help me work harder. I’m going to try to spin them into something
good. This has worked for me before. For example, when I lacked confidence in
my writing, I took courses and attended conferences to help me improve my
craft. When I feel there’s something lacking in a novel I’m working on, I reach
out to my critique partners and beta readers for advice. By doing this I've been able to use my insecurities to become a better writer. So, if I start to
obsess over the things I’m insecure about, I’m going to try to remember to hit pause
and to find a way to turn that insecurity into something positive.
And if by chance that doesn't work, well chocolate always helps. J
How do you deal with
your insecurities?
Chocolate. Definitely chocolate.
ReplyDeleteBest of luck in 2013. It sounds as though you're on the right path.
Hello from IWSG...I like how you're taking proactive measures to deal with your insecurities. Yay for chocolate therapy! May 2013 be a good writing year for you!
ReplyDeleteChocolate, hot chocolate and an episode of the vampire diaries always makes me feel better... But I like the way you try to improve any weaknesses as opposed to avoid them.
ReplyDeleteI like the way you think. We can dwell in our insecurities or we can fight to defeat them. Good for you! Happy New Year!
ReplyDeleteThere you go - put a positive spin on it and make it work for you!
ReplyDeleteWine helps too - so thank you for the bottle you gave me. :) It was delish, btw.
ReplyDeleteThis is a very good way to look at it - insecurities are a great incentive to make ourselves better. If we went around succeeding all the time, we'd never really grow, would we?
What would we do without chocolate? ;)
ReplyDeleteZed, I'm with you on the Vampire Diaries. I love that show and watching it always gets me in the mood to write.
Glad the wine was good, Nicki! Wine is second only to chocolate. :)
Your goal for insecure writers support group is not to be insecure? LMAO! ;-) I like your goal of problem solving by taking action when there's an insecurity. Do you get Savvy Author emails? I find myself learning some things about writing (when I have time to read them of course!)
ReplyDeleteLove your attitude and idea about using your insecurities to become a better writer! Nice post!
ReplyDeleteHi, Cherie,
ReplyDeleteNice to meet you and HAPPY NEW YEAR! New follower here.
What a terrific way to see things. Turning a negative into a positive is challenging and VERY gratifying. You are on top of it and that's the way to be.
Wishing you the very best for 2013....
Hi Jen. I'll have to check out Savvy Author.
ReplyDeleteThanks Tyrean and Michael :)
The Savvy Author has some really good stuff to offer. I've signed up las year. Best wishes to you and yours for 2013!
ReplyDeleteChocolate sounds like a good choice to me!
ReplyDeleteEspecially considering I recently discovered the best chocolate in the world!
Reminding myself that *everyone* has insecurities helps as much as anything! :D
ReplyDeleteLike someone else said, insecurities are what keep us humble and seeking to learn. They're not all bad. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for visiting my blog.
IWSG #137 until Alex culls the list again.
What a great way to approach the new year. Face your insecurities and use them to your advantage.
ReplyDeleteHappy 2013!